It seems there is way too much vindictiveness in this world regarding nearly everything. This negativity is reflected in war, birth, marriage, and religion—or the lack thereof. Additionally, technology is advancing too quickly for many to keep pace, leaving many people behind due to factors such as education, age, or limited resources. I think it’s affecting our children negatively, as they are fast-tracked in a world that wants them to believe almost robotically. At the expense, I might add, leaving time to just be kids.
Our computers, laptops, phones, iPads, earbuds, Beats, and similar devices have not only taken over our lives but also those of our children. In many cases, nothing is being filtered, censored, or blocked, which is leading to children who lack social skills but are inundated daily with online Too-Much-Information, which leads to cyber-attacks, social media bullying, and content way beyond their educational levels to fully understand. Some of this technology comes at the expense of allowing them to just be kids. COVID really exacerbated these pressures that led to an increased number of child suicides.
My wife and I often comment on how refreshing it is when we see kids, other than in organized sports, outside playing. They are exposed to way too much information, and no one is monitoring the “candy store.” As a result, many children prioritize instant gratification and a superficial understanding of knowledge over morality and substance.
It seems that we are all in too much of a hurry, racing toward old age instead of embracing a more leisurely pace that allows time for nurturing relationships, attending church, and spending quality moments with our children and loved ones. We need to learn that we don’t need to spend money to experience life. Instead we would all benefit by turning off, and tuning out of our electronic devices more often. Get outside and take a walk, ride a bike, throw a ball, have a catch, watch a sunset or sunrise, read a book, and enjoy a leisurely stroll in the park. Don’t forget to pack a picnic basket! Simply enjoy life!
Too often, we have become preoccupied with work, careers, money, Credit Cards, and Credit Card debt, 401(k)s, IRAs, buying vacation homes at the shore or in the mountains, and upgrading to better cars, boats, trips, and the like. Keeping up with the latest technology, which is constantly evolving and becoming more expensive, is almost an obsession for some people. It feels as though we don’t allow ourselves to pause, take a breath, and truly focus on what should be the most important aspects of life.
Point to Ponder: Take it from this approaching 70-year-old couple, who have been married for almost 50 years, who offer some valuable advice. We have both lost a parent, way too young in life, as well as siblings and in-laws. You know what’s really important? Tell your parents how much you love them for all they have done for you. Let your spouse know how much they mean to you; don’t take your relationship for granted. Tell your kids how much you love them and that it’s okay if they want to learn through hands-on experiences, as that might be their passion. The same respect goes towards siblings and in-laws. If you haven’t spoken to a loved one, mend fences by being the first to reach out. Life is too short, and someday it may be too late and filled with regrets.
Don’t dwell on the “should’ve, could’ve, would’ve” mindset. Make sound decisions, work hard, play hard, and pray even harder. You’ll find that life is more enjoyable when you approach it as a team.
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